When one faces a challenge, it is but typical that the individual goes through different coping phases until he reaches acceptance. This I have been taught in my Psychology class. But the study of behavior does not necessarily puts one prepared to every challenge or adversity that may be thrown at his doorstep. As the saying goes " You'll never know till you're under that situation" still holds true to me and to my family.
I have heard stories of different kinds of cancer and how they afflict an individual and his loved ones. I have had friends who died from this disease and yet, when I learned that somebody in my family has it- I felt I was lost and helpless. I believe I wasn't the only one having these emotions for I can see that my family was in a state of shock and denial over the whole matter. My mother-in-law was diagnosed with ovarian cancer last Monday. The news hit us hard. Tears poured uncontrollably and sleepless nights followed. After days of contemplation and private talks with my husband, we placed our faith into action. As I quote his words, "we will fight this till the end." I agree with him that attitude towards the disease can greatly contribute to a person's healing. It is our hope that our mother would also have the courage to fight this disease and continue to live life. We do not erase the fact that all our hopes have limitations. We trust in the knowledge that as a family, we can be together eternally as we strive to live our lives righteously. Knowing that the blessings of the temple are within reach make us all hopeful that whatever happens, we can be together forever. This is enough for now...we will take each step one at a time and look forward to better days ahead.
